{"id":227671,"date":"2020-12-22T11:30:52","date_gmt":"2020-12-22T11:30:52","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/151.106.38.4\/2020\/12\/22\/set-goals-that-involve-giving-to-others-to-be-happier-in-2021\/"},"modified":"2020-12-22T11:30:52","modified_gmt":"2020-12-22T11:30:52","slug":"set-goals-that-involve-giving-to-others-to-be-happier-in-2021","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/nagalandpost.net\/index.php\/2020\/12\/22\/set-goals-that-involve-giving-to-others-to-be-happier-in-2021\/","title":{"rendered":"Set goals that involve giving to others to be happier in 2021"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img src=\/old_site\/2020_12$large_seigpage.jpg><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;Toss out your usual list of New Year&rsquo;s resolutions and set goals that involve giving to others to be happier in 2021, suggest experts.<\/p>\n<p>Their study published in the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology showed that happiness increases as your focus of concern and care gets wider.<\/p>\n<p>&ldquo;We found that when people are focused on giving to others they experience deeper satisfaction than when their goals are more self-oriented,&rdquo; said Richard Ryan, Professor Emeritus of Psychology at the University of Rochester in the US.<\/p>\n<p>&ldquo;For example, experiments show that doing something benevolent for others, even when you will never meet the beneficiary, increases your positive mood and energy,&rdquo; said Ryan.<\/p>\n<p>Together with Edward Deci, also a University of Rochester Professor Emeritus of Psychology, Ryan is the co-founder of the self-determination theory (SDT), a broad framework for the study of human motivation and personality.<\/p>\n<p>Developed by the duo over nearly 40 years, the theory has become one of the most widely accepted frameworks of human motivation in contemporary behavioural science.<\/p>\n<p>Its starting point is the idea that all humans have the natural &#8211; or intrinsic &#8211; tendency to behave in effective and healthful ways.<\/p>\n<p>According to Ryan, acts of willingly helping others satisfy all three of the basic psychological needs identified in SDT research: the needs for autonomy, competence, and relatedness.<\/p>\n<p>Autonomy in this context means that you can engage in activities in which you feel true volition and find personal value.<\/p>\n<p>Competence means feeling effective and having a sense of accomplishment.<\/p>\n<p>Finally, relatedness means working with and feeling connected to others.<\/p>\n<p>&ldquo;If you want to make a New Year&rsquo;s resolution that really makes you happy, think about the ways in which you can contribute to the world,&rdquo; said Ryan.<\/p>\n<p>&ldquo;The research shows it&rsquo;s not just good for the world but also really good for you.&rdquo; (IANS)<\/p>\n<div>&nbsp;<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Set goals that involve giving to others to be happier in 2021<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[688],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-227671","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","category-infotainment"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/nagalandpost.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/227671","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/nagalandpost.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/nagalandpost.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/nagalandpost.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/nagalandpost.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=227671"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/nagalandpost.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/227671\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/nagalandpost.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=227671"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/nagalandpost.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=227671"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/nagalandpost.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=227671"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}