To commemorate this year\u2019s Mother\u2019s Day\u2014an occasion to honour mothers\u2014Nagaland Post reached out to some of the incredible supermoms, who, besides dealing with daily challenges, contribute to family and society in their own unique way. As the American author, Mitch Albom said, \u2018behind all your story is always your mother\u2019s story because hers is where your begins\u2019, while these may be the least of the many incredible women, their stories reflect the resilience, strength, and love that characterize mothers everywhere.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Dr Mhasiseno T Belho, proprietor of Dr. Belho\u2019s Clinic, Dimapur is an experienced OBGYN in her 24th year of service, states motherhood has been \u201ca full-throttle career mom raising three conscientious free spirit Gen alpha girls.\u201d She revealed her dictum of \u2018Better me first, and then better them! My desire is to raise emotionally and socially balanced daughters in a world that is hard-wired for a child to excel in academics\u2019.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
As a doctor, Dr. Belho finds value in what may seem \u201clike mundane activities to others, particularly on Sundays\u201d, as that is the only quality time she can devote when compared to the weekdays. In her message to women, as an expertise of the field, her concern would be on access to cervical cancer vaccination for women aged 9-45 years, timely Pap smear tests for married women, and the necessity of proper antenatal care with institutional delivery, drawing from her expertise in obstetrics and gynecology.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Dr. Hewasa L Khing, Principal of Tetso College, whose affluent educational proves, where she is today is a mother of 2. She states, \u201cI cannot fathom the kind of challenges faced by mothers in the past when they did not have means to the advancements we currently have.\u201d As a full time academician, Khing added, \u201cthe joy of getting my son to school on time is an accomplishment of the day\u201d. On the aspects of family dynamics, she commended all women, who, despite limited resources, demonstrate resilience, stating, \u201cthey can accomplish almost anything they set their mind to\u201d. Commenting on the diversity of parenting styles and against judgment, asserted, \u201cEvery mother has her own style of coparenting and managing the family which works, so I don\u2019t think we should be hard or judgmental on each other even if we do things differently.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Apane Lasuh, wife to the Senior Pastor of Chakhesang Baptist Church, Kohima, is the mother of two. She mentioned that one daunting task and challenging factor is that humans, though imperfect, see church leaders as revered. She said, \u2018to practice what one preaches on stage\u2019 is deemed to be the enriching way, while being in the limelight, something she highly abides by, even through her children. As the support system to her husband\u2019s ministry, she said being a \u2018humble mother\u2019 can attain an absolute sense of a \u2018well-performed task as a mother,\u2019 because in the utmost sense of spirituality, \u2018being a mother is the foundation, a responsibility to lead not only one\u2019s children in the Love of God.\u2019 She said, \u2018any women who have been in my shoes can testify that despite times of poor health or even making additional plans away from the church is not easy as anyone may think.\u2019<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Dr Watinaro Longkumer Kiewhuo, Associate professor, and a mother of one, states, \u201cI define motherhood in a very big spectrum. It doesn\u2019t have to be someone who gave birth to a child, but I call myself as a mother.\u201d She added her role beyond biological motherhood, helps build an emotional connection with them. She notes the increasing visibility of women as a sign of progress towards autonomy and empowerment, remarking, \u201cToday if you look in the main road, you will see more women driving today, which are the strides women have made towards autonomy and empowerment.\u201d She remarked that, embracing motherhood should not be a factor that discourages anyone from \u2018chasing their dream.\u201d She advises prioritizing personal well-being while caring for others, while also being a full time working woman themselves.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Apucho Theluo, a full-time homemaker and mother of five kids, expressed a common sentiment among parents, that as their infants grow, there\u2019s a longing for them to remain small due to the rapid passage of time. Theluo recognized that motherhood brings blessings when approached with dedication and care. As her kids grow in stages, she adds, \u2018I do worry if anything were to go wrong, but also I also pray for the protecting arms, that they will be able to grow into responsible adults\u2019. In her advice to young mothers, she advised them to build confidence and boldness, despite initially feeling lost or out of place.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
She also noted the importance of trusting in oneself and not succumbing to fear or doubt, as doing so may cause them to miss out on significant opportunities. When not at home, she devotes her time as a deacon to her parent church, CBCK Kohima.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Aying Wangsha, a Member of the Nagaland State Commission for Protection of Child Rights, is a mother of two based in Dimapur. Prior to her current work status, she was the Principal of Konjong Higher Secondary School in Mon for a little more than 5 years. She said that even after embracing motherhood, she takes it as an accomplishment of \u2018being able to make one of the most important decisions in my life.\u2019 As a full-time working mom to a child with special needs, she faces the challenge of balancing work and family life while being concerned about her child\u2019s future. She admitted to sacrificing her \u2018stable job\u2019 to relocate to a new place for the sake of her child\u2019s future. She says that a very hard decision today enables her child to go to an inclusive school.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Speaking of the \u2018silent grief\u2019 that few have to bear witness to, she says it is a hurdle because for her it is as important to give a child \u2018that is safe and more acceptable\u2019 while drawing on the continued support she has witnessed so far. She says beyond her understanding, through an enthusiastic nature from within and her faith in God and His purpose for each one have kept her going so far. Quoting Jeffrey R. Holland, \u201cThe work of a mother is hard, too often unheralded work. Please know that it is worth it then, now, and forever,\u201d she encouraged all not to misuse the special privilege given even when life is different by circumstances.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Henlly Phom Odyuo, Senior Journalist at Eastern Mirror, is a mother of 2 and has been in the media field for 11 years. She opens up about being a mother while following one\u2019s passion, stating, \u2018Despite being married, I get to follow my passion, especially after many assumed I would quit after marriage.\u2019 <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Answering how, despite equally contributing to the family, women are often subjected to judgments, she said they are still judged, yet every woman should be confident in making the right choices and setting boundaries, stating, \u2018At the end of the day, one should learn to say no and not feel burdened.\u2019 Crediting her husband for instilling confidence that family responsibilities are not solely the mother\u2019s job, she expresses much gratitude for the support of her in-laws. She admitted that many times, people mistake her profession as highly paid. While weighing the prestige and opportunity, she said, \u2018it ought to be selfless dedication\u2019 for those who wish to follow in her path.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Pinky Longchar, a police personal and single mother of one daughter, has been in force for 10+ years, currently based with East Police Station of the 15th IR. Longchar admits to feeling pained by the inability to spend as much quality time with her daughter as she would like, while taking pride in her commitment to public service. When questioned if she has encountered any discomforts due to her marital status, she responded, \u2018Being a single mother, I have taken it as a calling to embrace motherhood with confidence. Despite the absence of a father, my earnest intention is to provide the best of myself to both my child and my service to the public.\u2019 While the grappling realities can never be fully spoken, she challenged all other mothers who may be in her shoes that with \u2018unwavering faithful commitment, while fully rooted in God, one can be a better example for the child\u2019.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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